# Hit the ball in the middle of the racquet. Not so easy, is it? Videos

- Link: https://jazzblues.eu/2018/03/24/hit-the-ball-in-the-middle-of-the-racquet-not-so-easy-is-it-videos/
- Published: 2018-03-24T10:13:11+01:00
- Author: https://JazzBlues.EU

**I like to play squash, and the best advice a pro ever gave me was this: “Hit the
ball in the middle of the racquet.” Do you have any idea how difficult that simple
piece of advice is to master?**

Not so long ago, a friend (Brent Vaartstra) posted a great podcast about overcoming
low self esteem as a musician. This is something that has plagued me on and off 
most of my musical career, and I’ve been playing for almost forty years. I stopped
practicing for about fifteen years after a then-friend of mine said to me, somewhat
blithely at a challenging moment in my life, “However good a musician you think 
you are, you’re a much better writer.” What’s worse is that friend had tin ears 
and didn’t even like jazz that much. Still, what she said somehow caught me at a
moment when my knees were weak. I knew a number of great players, and realized I
would likely never be among them, plus I found the music scene a terrific struggle
in terms of making a living full time. (It’s also true I’ve likely made more money
as a writer than a musician. But deep down what I failed to articulate for myself
is that they are essentially different facets of the same thing.)

Nevertheless, I still hung out with friends, a number of whom are recognized great
players, and when one of them asked me how I could keep a guitar and not play it
very much knowing how much I had practiced every day for years, my response was,“
It’s not a great idea to keep dating your ex-wife.”

I continued to have what I might call a number of musical one-night stands, hanging
and playing with friends, jamming along, keeping my head above water, being part
of the scene if to the side of it somewhat with recording musicians. I was free 
of the pressure to keep up, though, as I saw it. (Of course, I’m the one who put
that pressure on myself.) I had fun in the moment and could rise to the moment in
the company of these guys. My friends were willing to play with me, and I managed
to keep my chops just this side of rusty as a result.

I started practicing again because of my son. When he was six we took him to a music
exploration day at the Bloomingdale School for Music and he spent all afternoon 
running up and down stairs blowing on this thing, plucking that thing, whomping 
on something bangable, but he kept coming back to the violin and the teacher. We
got the message. He wanted to be a violinist. After we arranged for him to take 
lessons at Opus 118, which was in the heart of Harlem at the time, I started practicing
again because I thought it would be a good idea to give him a model of someone who
practices an instrument as something usual, not something unusual and exotic. I 
became the anti-dad. “You can give this up any time you want,” I would tell him.“
No, no, no, no, no,” my young son would say, his chin jutting out defiantly. “Then
you have to practice,” I told him calmly. “You can’t half do this.” And I found 
it was contagious. I was enjoying practicing and playing again, and so, little by
little I got into the routine of studying and practicing and playing once again.
Over the years I’ve met and played with loads of musicians and one of the few negative
things we all have in common is a sometimes strong dissatisfaction with our own 
playing.

After I started studying again, I told Peter Bernstein my goal was to improve enough
to like how I sounded on tape. He said it wasn’t my job to like or dislike my playing,
that’s for the audience to decide. And certainly, I’m sure most of us can empathize
with the irony of people in the audience coming up to you after a gig and praising
playing that you think sucked.

Every time I hear myself on tape after a gig I want to cringe and cry at the same
time, despite people making nice comments about my playing (What kind of tin ears
do these people have, anyway?). I force myself to swallow that indigestibly familiar
feeling. I give it a few days for my traumatized ego to quieten, for my dose of 
humility to kick in, and then I remind myself what Berns told me in essence, that
it’s not my job as a musician to be fabulous or brilliant or any other egocentric
thing. Just play the tune well. Improvisation is essentially embellishment of the
tune. So whenever I get into my “Oh my God, how can I sound like that,” mode, I 
essentially wait it out and then go back to that (current) infamous recording thinking,“
OK let’s start defining what it is that really horrifies me so. Because THAT is 
what I need to work on next. Do more of THAT, and try not to do as much of this 
other thing.” Very often it involves forcing myself to vocalize what I’m doing during
my practice sessions. For some reason I find this a continuing struggle to do well,
forcing the fingers to obey the brain, not the other way about, because otherwise
the instrument becomes the master, rather than the tool.

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My job as a musician is simple—find ways to creatively define a song’s harmonic 
and melodic possibilities when I improvise, and to just play the damn tune properly.(
Hit the ball in the middle of the racquet, damnit!) And along with mastering rhythmic
possibilities, for me that’s enough. My first serious music teacher, in England 
where I grew up, was the bassist Peter Ind. Peter moved to New York in the early
1950s to study and play with Lennie Tristano, arguably one of the first great players
to come up with a flexible system of breaking down how to improvise geared to the
individual player. By the time I met him, Peter was a tall, thin man in his 40s 
with shoulder length hair and a ZZ Top-like beard, who grappled with the bass the
way Ray Brown and Oscar Pettiford did, using a high action and powerful hands. He
had an intense way of talking quietly, looking you in the eye as he spoke, that 
was both kind and intimidating at the same time. There was little room for bullshit.

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Peter told me a story of a new student of his, a professional trumpet player who
wanted to “buff up” his jazz playing. After several weeks of lessons the trumpet
player quit, telling Peter that far from making him a better player, Peter had made
him play worse! Peter’s point to me, and I knew it to be true because he was (and
still is) one of the best teachers I’ve ever had, was that far from making the guy
play worse, he had managed in a few short weeks to open up his ears, and the guy,
perhaps for the first time, was able to hear what he actually played like. It was
a shock to the system. The next step, the one the guy was not able to take, was 
to shuck the ego and listen to his playing as if he was teaching another musician
not himself.

Another great influence on me is the remarkable west coast player Larry Koonse. 
I remember starting a session with him by sharing that I’d been struggling with 
some musical demons (of which this was one), and he immediately told me he’d been
struggling with musical demons much of his early career, and as recently as that
very summer. I was quietly dumb-struck. How is that possible? I thought. How can
you be arguably one of the great guitarists in the world, and still have musical
expression problems you need to wrestle with? And of course, his demons are certainly
not mine, nor are they yours either. But a dedication to honestly exploring musicality
can open us up to this pathway if we’re not careful.

That led us to a discussion about perfectionism, and how debilitating it can be,
and how it hit him so hard after he graduated music school (Larry was the first 
recipient of a Bachelor of Music in Jazz Studies at the University of Southern California),
that he stopped playing for months before finally starting up again, a little bit
each day at first.

Chick Corea breaks things down this way:

Find a player whose playing you connect to and love, and play along with it as best
you can. Try and mimic the flow and the rhythms. Record yourself playing something.(
The great English jazz guitarist Dave Cliff, an old friend and early formative influence
on me, once told me he recorded all his practice sessions at one point in his life.
It’s a tough school to attend though, be warned.)

Finally, there’s what Chick calls the “Apprentice System.” Find a Master to work
with, someone who has an ability you’d like to have, and go make music with them.
This is how we learn a skill. Work with people that you want to learn from and who
can help you figure it out.

At its best, music is something outside of us, an energy stream that we strive to
somehow plug into using our ears and our fingers, like launching out on a plank 
without a life jacket into a fast moving river. It’s something that we manage, through
the meditation of practice, to connect with when we are on the stand. We become 
conduits for something “other” that passes through us, and is shaped as it enters
the world by who we are at that moment. Our job is to simply get out of the way 
and let it flow through.

Hit the ball in the middle of the racquet. Not so easy, is it?

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